Building Healthy Families
Monday, December 12, 2011
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Especially during the holidays, it is so important for grandparents to support parents wishes for their children. When parents attempt to limit the number of sweets their child consumes or stick with a bedtime routine and schedule it can be very difficult if a grandparent is counteracting those efforts. As "Nana", I try to make an intentional effort to support my daughter and her husband. We have already had a discussion about the schedule for Christmas morning and what her expectations are. Because I spend a lot of time with my grandchildren, I have an idea of what some of the rules and routines are. Yet,I assume nothing. For example: When the children argue with Mom or try to nag her into submission about something they want to have or do, rather than getting involved in the issue, I distract them by offering to read a story, play a game or go for a walk. I choose an activity I know my daughter approves of and something the grandchildren love to do. Whatever you do, don't contradict Mom in front of the children. If you don't agree with something, talk about it later when the children aren't present.
ReplyDeleteI have also talked with my daughter and her husband about the gifts they are giving their children which has helped me purchase gifts that fit with their family needs and values.
Being "Nana" is so special and wonderful, however, when all of the grown-ups are on the same page about discipline, family routines and rules it makes the holidays and every day better for everyone...especially the children.